• Norman Perry posted an update 1 year ago

    Mainstream heterosexual society has been understanding how to accept, or at least is getting use to the visibility of lgbt people over the last several years. With more states legalizing gay marriage like Oregon and Pennsylvania and the overturning of DOMA, the Defense of Marriage Act, which defines marriage as a union between one man and something woman, gay and lesbians have already been making strides toward equal rights. バイセクシャル 診断 and Television have featured more lgbt characters and more and much more celebrities have come out of the closet like The Big Bang Theory’s Jim Parsons and celeb Ellen Page. But with all this exposure bisexual people have been left out.

    There has been bi-phobia not merely in the heterosexual community, but also in the gay and lesbian community. That’s probably because the gay and lesbian community, similar to the heterosexual community, doesn’t know much about, or understand bisexuals. There are several myths about bisexuals that need to be clarified so they are more understood.

    Myth #1 Bisexuals are confused about their sexuality.

    Bisexuals are not confused about their sexuality. They just are actually attracted to both men and women. Many teenagers are confused about their sexuality in general mostly because of the societal pressures to be heterosexual. As teenagers figure out who they are they’ll know instinctively who they’re attracted to.

    Myth #2 To be bisexual you will need to love both genders equally.

    While bisexuals are attracted to men and women, they are not necessarily drawn to both genders equally. It’s almost like a percentage, with 50%/50% being a person attracted to men and women equally.

    Myth #3 Being bisexual means having a male and female lover concurrently.

    While bisexual people could be with both men and women over their dating career most bisexuals don’t feel just like they need to be with both genders concurrently to feel fulfilled.

    Myth #4 Bisexual folks are promiscuous.

    Bisexuals are just as likely to be promiscuous as hetero- or homosexual people. Their sexual orientation has nothing to do with their sexual life style. Bisexuals are simply as likely to be monogamous as anyone else also.

    Myth #5 Bisexuals are in “transition.” On the path to being gay.

    Most people who are bisexual are set in, and more comfortable with their sexual orientation. There were a small number of gay and lesbian individuals who have come out as bisexual as the stigma to be homosexual. This offends bisexuals since it really helps to maintain this myth.

    Myth #6 Bisexual People have more privilege than gay and lesbian people.

    This myth is both true and untrue according to the circumstance. Whenever a bisexual person is with, and especially married to, a person of a different sex they will have the benefits of heterosexual privilege, but when a bisexual person is with a person of exactly the same sex they’ll not.